Hoping - It's what we all NEED! Positive Mental Attitude!
Yes, I agree with you.....that his paying some attention to me was great and just what I needed at the time. And yes, maybe it was better that he doesn't live close enough for it to get serious. But as I said, I have known him for 25 years and we have always had that "mutual admiration society" so it was nice to just be myself around him.
I would never do this with someone I just met. In fact, D15 only saw New Guy for a few minutes one evening when we were going out to dinner. I picked him up at his hotel and we dropped D15 at the mall for a movie with her friends. Afterwards, I took D15 home first, and then took New Guy back to his hotel. That is what helped keep me in control. I knew she was expecting me home soon as it was only a 10 minute drive to the hotel.
Everything is moving pretty slowly in the D department. I just can't motivate myself to fill out those financials and get my narrative together. In fact, I've been downright lazy lately. Absolutely no motivation. I am not depressed or tired....I just lack that burning desire to do any work. Maybe it's the season and maybe it's just me. But I am not too stressed over it. I plan to discuss it with C today. Hope you are doing well in your sitch. I will take a look at your posts later today.
