Quote: I have tried for 10 months now to deal with it....but I don't see one bit of progress. When H walked out of our home in May, he said he was done! And nothing I have tried has changed his mind. He is still angry, still with OW, still acting very weird, and still determined to get a D.
I'm right where you are.
Quote: but with the knowledge that I have tried just about everything I can to make our M work
I know that I have done everything also, for me, that is something that I HAD to do before accepting it was over.
Quote: Besides, now that the battle of L's is on....I need my energy to go into making the D settlement as good as I can for D15 and I. It's our future at stake and as long as H does not want to compromise, I will fight.
I'm in the thick of the D process and STBX seems to want to destroy me. So you're right, I do need all of my strength and energy for this part of the ride.
