Trying to Let Go

[GratefulMama0204]

Karma is WONDERFUL

I can only imagine the chaos in-town. One of my friends is married to one of the Texans and they have been going to parties all week.

I just read up on your sitch, and it sucks to see so many people going through the same stuff.

My STBXH sent papers to me for full custody and c/s on V-day. That was a SHOCK. Throughout this whole ordeal he has agreed to pay me c/s and I am primary custodial parent of the kids. Then that move.

He swore that he had no idea. whatever. he probably used it to get me to move more quickly to settle. As soon as he took that off the table [yesterday] I could move forward to settlement. Bah.

I did screw with him today though. I asked him that since we had finalized all of the terms for settlement and temporary orders would it be safe for me to go on a date. I didn't want him to pretend I was having an affair. He said he definitely wouldn't use it against me in court and the D is practically final minus the mandatory waiting period.

Then he had 20 questions about who it was with, where did I meet him, etc,etc. He said he really wasn't comfortable with it but he would have to get over it. [This from the man who slept with OW in my freakin house.]

Fun, fun, fun. [I don't actually have a date, just a boy that is being nice. I have told him that I am an emotional wreck and he should stay away, but you know how well men heed words like that, lol. I really don't see it going anywhere, I just find it nice to be lavished praise and attention after all of the trauma associated with the A.

Anyway, it was nice to see a teeny bit of jealousy in him. having him realize that I am GAL. I know he likes to think of me pining away for him.