I'm sorry you had to move over here, from Infidelity. I know you need to do this and move on, and I am offering all my support to you. You sure don't deserve this, but I admire you for knowing exactly what you needed to do and following through on it. Strength, my friend.
She's gonna go ballistic more and more as this goes on; stand firm and protect yourself. I hope it goes as smoothly as possible.
Good luck.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.