Well I have been over at Infedilty...If you guys are interested I have attached my links...Have a drink because they are comical...
WAW left a few months ago...needed some time...committed to MC for 5 sessions but we quit after 2 because she was unwilling to quit OM.
So that brings us to today...I have filed and W and my negotiations started today. Ouch...that sucked.
she wants to leave me all the debt and the bills of a two income household and jsut walk away and start over...I don't think so. I told her today that she was going to have to pay me $900 per month for one year for a carpayment and Insurance. She flipped out on me.
Then...I said and if you choose to fight me on this, My L wants to have a deposition where we will call co-workers, friends and family for find out timeline of affair...all under oath...you see W has kept A quiet from all family, friends and co-workers and she has been justifying to all that I'm this bad person...she would totally be busted and her Rep is very important to her...
Can I say that she went balistic...I thought she was going to jump through the phone at me...she said some really hurtfull things...so of course she said why couldn't I be a stand up guy and walk away...come on...she lies and cheats on me, takes birth controll pills behind my back and I need to be a stand up guy and suffer some more financially...sorry
So I can't say that I wish I was in here with all of you, but I am accepting it and trying to move on...and I do really appreciate that you all are here in this room with me and I'm really sorry that any of us are here.
