"Our relationship's just run its course" "You deserve to be with someone who can make you happy" "I always had doubts about us" "Once we got enagaged the wedding preparations were impossible to stop" (We were engaged for 18 months and didn't start organising the wedding until about 10 months before it - I think he could have managed to say something in all that time if it was that bad.) "We're just not compatible" (Evidently we were compatible enough to get married just 18 months ago - something I pointed out to him and he had no asnwer for)
I'm ashamed to say I actually fell for all these when I first heard them. Thank God I know better now.
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei