OH YEAH... Almost forgot... 4 days after the bomb (and before she knew I knew about OM) she decides we need to work things out. Confess all to each other, cry a lot, decide we want to be together... That feeling lasts a few days and starts to wane... She starts thinking maybe she needs some time on her own apart... A few more days go past and I tell her in a phone conversation that I had spoken to a Lawyer ACQUAINTANCE, who doesn't even practice in our state,nor is a family law type... She blows up. I tell her that his only recommendation was to try to work things out privately. That as soon as one party involves a lawyer, things start to escalate. Well, then she tells ME that she talked to a girl in her choir who works for a lawyer... and asked for information on a sep. agreement! And if her boss could handle that for us!
WTF... I can't ask for friendly advice, but she can?
