Yup...it's amazing isn't it? And all I had asked for was time...time to heal, forgive and think of myself for a change. Maybe I was unknowingly stalling to prove the fact that H will never change and that he isn't really sorry for what he's done. He's sorry he lost his lifestyle that he had with me...because he now has nothing. I know what OW is to him...someone to split the bills with. What is astonishing is that he risks me never talking to him again and zero friendship with me ...if he brings her here. What am I supposed to do...see OW everytime I drop off our son at his place??? It's like torture all over again...to see the woman that helped destroy our M and family.
I always knew my H was selfish..but over the last year I have seen JUST HOW SELFISH he can be. If he's smart he'll go to her, and not bring her here.
And I am expecting once he gets served he will bolt back to the foreign country we lived in before, to be with OW and avoid being garnished for child support payments.
