I guess I've been fortunate that my H hasn't said any stupid things cause he knows it's stupid! But he did say this in the beginning when he already knew I knew about them sleeping together.

"She's just a friend"

ya, I sleep with my friends too.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."