Ok. This isn't the stupidest thing he has said about the affair. It's just stupid. He's been calling for 3 days. I finally picked up today. He said he wanted to tell me why he filed.
"I did it as much for your sake as I did for mine."
WTF Don't do me any favors, you wanker!
Or, perhaps he has done me the greatest favor of my life!
Always do right. This will gratify some people, and astonish the rest. Mark Twain
LSS did something really similar. After I found out about the life of lies...he called me 10 times on Mother's day. When I finally picked up he said that he was calling becuase he wanted to tellme to stop calling and harassing him becuase he was going to get a restraining order. Since I work in a profession where we help women get them...I Asked him waht he was talking about. He was the one calling me. He said he would keep calling me day and night until I finally understood that I shouldn't call him. When I, again, told him I wasn't the one contacting him, he said he was just being proactive and he hoped I would get the message after a couple of weeks of him calling!!!!
talk about mental illness!!!! I finally shut all my phones off...he seriously kept calling and then he started calling my work telling me that shutting off my phones wasn't going to make him stop calling me to get his point across!!!!
Forgot to add that this is "about the A" (as the thread is titled), because she said it during our d-day discussion. What a strange and wonderful fantasy land she must live in!
I guess I've been fortunate that my H hasn't said any stupid things cause he knows it's stupid! But he did say this in the beginning when he already knew I knew about them sleeping together.
"She's just a friend"
ya, I sleep with my friends too.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
