I didn't think I had anything to add on this, but W just said something the other day. We were discussing the A (I brought it up :P), marriage counseling, and that there were certain things she would only say in a mediated forum... "out of respect for you". Um, yeah, thanks for that bit of respect, since you've been disrespecting me, our friends, and our families by using all of us in various situations so you can be with OM.
