This wasn't said TO me, but I know from snooping that OM wants a "godly woman"... And my computer captured (X)W emailing him that when they resumed sleeping together after her divorce it was going to feel HOLY...(they stopped b/c it wasn't "right") Jeez!
Oh, and before the bomb when things were just getting going on her part (EA) "He's SOOO spiritual! He knows scripture so well!"
"I did NOT have an affair b/c I told you the marriage was over before I got involved w/ OM" Okay, you told me in the morning and that night you told him you wanted to see him, that HE was the person you were attracted to that you had confided to him about a few weeks earlier. That you had been attracted to him for weeks, if not a few months.
"since the marriage was over it wasn't an affair. I shouldn't have slept with him because I'm not divorced, but it wasn't an affair".
Of course I heard the standards... We never should have gotten married. I probably never loved you the way I should have. We didn't have any chemistry. The kids will be okay once they see we're both happy. The kids don't have ANY problem w/ OM; they like him and enjoy going out w/ him.... (Neither of them now wants to talk about him AT ALL!)
