All right since I am on the flip side of the coin having been the one in MLC, I am offering this up at my own expense .
It wasn't specifically about the A but I THINK this may have been the stupidest thing I said during my MLC...
H and I were discussing him refinancing the house.
Had we been planning to stay together, the $25,000 that we got would have built an addition onto the house. Since I was adamant we were NOT staying together, I offered an alternative use for the money.
I actually asked him to build me a little apartment in the 1/2 acre beside our house that we own. My rationalization was that he would not have to be separated from the kids and neither would I. That when he worked nights, I'd be right here. The look on his face said it all. I had clearly lost my entire freakin mind. He asked me how he was supposed to deal with OM coming to see me on HIS property.
I actually thought it was a good idea at the time.
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