Try not to see the painful things as hurtful. Sure, most of it hurts really bad at the time. Some of it is said by them out of spite, some out of guilt, some out of frustration, but, on reflection, 99% can be quite amusing after a while. My W is at a point where she talks to me quite openly now, and I can ask her about some of the things she said 6 months ago, and even some from more recently. While she can remember saying these things, some meant to hurt at the time, she honestly doesn't remember why she said them. Almost all of it seems to be 'fog talk'. In fact if pushed she seems quite embarassed or even feels guilty at some of it..... Anyhow, why should they be the only ones to have 'fun' in all this craziness?
Quote: Oh this is my favorite by far. What galaxy are these WAS's from?
OM is from a small galaxy, not far from here, called MegaRectum. he is it's biggest star, recently discovered, and named by NASA scientists as Fullacrap Major.....
W is from another small galaxy, which revolves around MegaRectum, called GullibleFool, which, oddly enough, has a small star called Fullacrap Minor.....
RBinBR,
Thanks for starting this thread. You are right, for some it's useful to see the funny side of things and, for those not so fortunate it's useful to have somewhere to vent the more painful side of things. Hopefully those of us on the 'funny' side can bring a slight smile to the others while they unload their pain. Again, thanks....
Steelersfan,
You most definately are not alone. Although I seem to be laughing at the moment, I still get bad days. Some are very bad. Luckily I now have many more good days than bad days, but I do remember when it was the other way around. It was not so long ago. I think thats why we are all here, to help each other along. I know that without this board, and the many wise and helpful people on it, I would probably have given up by now. To all of you... a big thank you.
oh and BTW I also heard
"I'm sorry, I have made a mess of things, havn't I."
and
"I don't know how to end it. I don't want to hurt OM because I love him."
Now i'm wondering. You don't think my W and your H are having an A, do you?
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"Only 2 things in life are certain, Infinity and Human Stupidity, and I'm not sure about the first one."
