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I lied when I told you I loved you in October

We will never, ever have s*x again (this was in November and still nothing.)

I am not leaving, this is my house. If you want to leave, go ahead.

I have made a mess of things.
I don't know how to end it because I don't want to hurt OW because I love her.

I knew when we were getting married that this was not right.

We are married in name only.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19