Spitfire did you over hear some of the conversations with my W because she said the exact same things! Except replace OW with OM...... Now if it was OW what would a guy think?
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1