Sam, Did you get D?. I'm going through the process right now I have a court date on Tue. for a conference to see if we can reconcile but that won't happen and I'm trying to not get H mad at me and thats hard and he is being so cold and nasty. I hope for a relationship after this but right now it is hard to be his friend and after the D I'm sure he will be angry with me for taking all that I could but he doesn't realize I have two kids to raise (his kids) and he needs to not have an attitude when it comes to them but anyway I do love him and have forgave him but he says he can't forgive himself so I don't know if there is any hope for me? any advice would be greatly appreciated Joa.