Blyndfaith...I am so sorry to hear about your pain and that your sitch involved OM...thankfully neither my W or I had to deal with that but I did start dating somewhat but nothing real serious...I had decided in my heart that this M was over and it was part of GAL...my W saw that I was starting to get "out there" and she seriously threw down the gauntlet at that point and made a tremendous and courageous stake at claiming her man once again...I think at this point she could flip a Sherman tank if it stood between her and I...I know it has got to be infinitely harder to detach if there is an other somebody in the picture and thankfully I didnt have to deal with that...
Keep strong and keep the faith...it is being tested now more than ever!!
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads...=5&o=31&fpart=1
