i am so happy for you man......can i ask was there an om involved in your sitch? my waw is living with om and i know she is in ful blown mlc mode, i have just finally decided that the only thing for me to do is to fully detach, both for me and for the sake of the m. but it will be final on march 6th not even 5 months from the time she dropped the bomb

I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.