Lancer...if you think it would help you to talk about your sitch then by all means send me your number at tampaguy1961@yahoo.com and tell me what is the best time to call...what part of Iowa are you from...my W is in Cedar Rapids this week with her family to lend support with her sister's critical surgery...supposed to get incredibly cold there after Wednesday and my W is someone who gets chilled here in Tampa unless it is blazing hot!!
I hope we can connect and I can humbly help you with your situation...
God Bless, stay strong and resolute and hang in there!!
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