TampabayGuy,

I just want to thank you for your words of encouragment tonight. You shined light on areas that I wasn't sure if the changes that my wife has been displaying were anything to see as a baby step. I do feel that I have a good chance with what I have been seeing and hearing from her. I am not going to get my hopes up, I am going to learn to detach and allow God to guide us back together. I just need to continue being happy and looking sharp around her. She use to always tell me how sexy I looked when I was dressed up in nice clothes. Maybe now she sees me looking good and is afraid that someone might attract my attention. She did make some progress by telling me that she has noticed that I have changed and have been being nice. She said that she realizes that she has been mean lately. I am going to continue to learn from the examples that you set and let Him guide me and I will need to trust in Him more. I am also going to join a men's ministry small group to interact with other positive men.

I am doing Joel Osteen's daily jounal. Something that really stuck with me today is how powerful your imagination is. For your to have success or a happy marriage, you need to visualize what it would be like. I laid in my bed and visualized me and my wife getting back together. I visualized us making love . I saw my wife and D2 going on nice vacations and being so happy together. I am going to use this approach every morning and several times a day to keep me in a positive state of mind as I am expecting God's favor.

OneWish's Story


"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."

- Albert Einstein