Lancer...I think you have the answer...you definitely know what has to be done and this is the hardest part...truly detaching all the way down to your being and soul...to do otherwise is only fooling yourself...you have got the idea now go to it and watch what happens!! GAL, Detach and get in close with your Maker...it does wonders to release your anxiety too...just watch...
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