Quote: "Marriage Fitness," by Mort Fertel. I read this book and it is awesome. It will help you develop a close oneness with your wife. Begin reading it now. Marcus.Henry@asu.edu
Marcus...thanks for your post and reminder on the book...just ordered it and should have it in a few days...my W will probably read it too after me...
I do want to talk to you tonight and plan on giving you a call...I think your wife is probably in the testing stage...kind of peaking her head out to see if it is safe...you have to respect her when she does this...it takes alot of courage on her part to try and see if you have changed...great risk to her...so honor and respect it and maybe you wont flake out and revert when she does take a peak...I know it was extremely hard for me when my W decided to take a look at me...I flaked badly a number of times which, if you know my sitch, led to extended periods of darkness...I was the King of Dark for a while...a title that I didnt want but probably needed...
The bottom line Marcus is that women, because they are wonderfully emotional due to their higher communicative receptors, love deeper than us...when they get hurt in love they get hurt deeper as a result...it takes them longer to heal...when you look at this all like that and see them taking a look at the man they love you have to admire, respect and stand in awe of their courage...it is unimaginable to us as men...hopefully this puts it in a perspective that helps you manage those tough times when she does put you through the test...
Talk to you later Marcus...stay strong!!
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