Lancer...it is all within your grasp if you let go and let Him do his works...it is such a juxtapositional statement to get what you want just by letting it be but this truly what happens...the breakthrough is letting go right down to your soul...you cant fake it and have to go all the way through with it...GAL and truly detaching allows you to do this and the rest is up to your relationship with Him to take over and get it done...
The worst thing you can do is lay in a pool of anxiety and fear D...what you fear will become reality the more you fear it...that is not my opinion but those smarter than me who have observed human behavior over many many years...one of those specifically was my advisor who goes unmentioned on these boards...he was right and this helped me detach...
Sounds like you took a giant step this past weekend...now GAL of your own and truly detach and watch what happens!! Stay strong and resolute in your purpose which right now should be doing what is best for YOU!!
My Story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads...=5&o=31&fpart=1
