Nice, I have long thought that you and your H need to learn to meet in the middle. It will not always be romance and love, sometimes it will be grabby and dirty. And, for him, he needs to chill out on the dirty aspect of it and learn how to woo.
How was he in the beginning? Was he romantic and flowery with his words?
How were you? Were you sexually adventurous?
What happens when you meet his sexual needs? Does he get more romantic? Or do you withhold the sex until he can be sufficiently romantic?
Sorry for all the questions; just glad to see you posting again!
