I don't know how to copy and paste on here..sorry. You said the LDS don't want to look sexy, etc.
Ok...I am a LDS...but I HAVE ALWAYS WANTED my husband to think I look sexy. Now he'd say I'd want him to look but not touch...not true. Just don't go straight for the breasts or the crotch only every time!!!! Try the JOhn Grey method on Men/Mars...Women/Venus...wow! His description of how to have foreplay was AMAZING...I could hardly listen to it ...it gets me hot thinking about it how...how he descirbs men should "go for it"...as it was too great!
Anyway...so are all LDS not supposed to want to feel sexy? I want to know I am beautiful and sexy to him...but even when I was 5'7" and 128 lbs...my butt was sagging..he said. Kinda hard to get motivated anymore. Still 5'7"...weight is a mystery number now!
What if you do want to feel sexy? I mean I want to wear the sexy stuff...always have...I just wanted to have romance and romantic words mixed in...am I LD? ha ha WHAT am I? Now that is the question.