No, I have set a moratorium on sex until about one month after newborn starts sleeping through the night, and will stick to my word (part of the whole trust building thing). The W and I are working through other things right now, and need to focus on that. I want her to remember these months as the time when I was willing to sacrifice one of my needs for the greater good of our relationship. Not as a martyr, but as a man with a plan, a long term plan.

Well, that sounds good, although I hope you don't go stir crazy in the meantime. Glad to hear she gave you a R book though. That shows some effort. Now if you can just translate all that great knowledge into some action. So how many more months of no nookie are we talking about here approximately? Isn't that baby 6 months old now?
Happy Valentine's Day!