"Being naked in front of your spouse requires that you be VERY comfortable with yourself, which is sexy in its own right."
I will disagree to some degree here. While being comfortable naked is definitely sexy, I think being uncomfortable, but still being willing to LET GO, make yourself vulnerable to your partner is a great feeling to both give and receive.
" personally HATE pj's opn my wive, it makes it virtually impossible to arouse her"
Why? I can think of LOTS of things to do to arouse a woman in PJs, and I'm a freakin novice at this stuff. What is it about your W that makes it impossible? I'm willing to bet it is really something else and the PJs are just an excuse.
"she is one of those people that has their arousal pattern backwards."
I think you are treading dangerously close to the "freak of nature" comment here CeMar. There is no backwards way of being aroused, there is just the way a person IS aroused.
"when all the good spots are virtually impossible to get to."
How do PJs make it impossible to get to the good spots? I can understand a pair of tight fitting jeans, but PJs? Seems like you could have a lot of fun sliding your hand down inside and ... I'd better stop before this turns into a BF or Stigmata post.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
