QUOTE ____________________________________________________________ If I had a H and he expected to be naked or for me to be naked in bed, or to sleep that way every night, that would be really boring. It would ruin the sexual excitement for me as he could already see it all so there's no build up. ____________________________________________________________
It is actually the complete opposite situation for those of us dealing with SSM issues. We are dealing with LD partners who don't have any "sexual excitement". I believe that a LD individual will not want to sleep nude because they may feel their 'sleeping nude' is a physical way of stating 'I am readily available for sex'. And of course they don't want to give off this impression because, well - they are LD. Unfortunately, those of us who want our SO's to sleep nude don't necessarily look at it like that, but rather a way of building closeness and intimacy.
