Maybe that's why deprived spouses want to sleep nude, because the LD spouse is always avoiding it?
I am HD but do have an idea how frustrating SSM problems are because I have this rare syndrome which means sometimes I medically can't. Most of the time in my M I managed 2 or 3 times a week but sometimes when I was really ill we couldn't for months. He was HD as well as me, but you know, it forces you to get creative, and I think part of the reason for being HD was that we couldn't always.
If I was able to just have it on a platter whenever I like, I don't think it would be as interesting to me.
Like if someone told me I could never have ice cream again I would be buying up all the ice cream I could find.
Maybe people should try reverse psychology and go to bed wearing PJ's and hats and completely ignore the LD spouse, that might work.
