One of my best friends lives there in Nottingham....welcome and thanks for your thoughts.
You have some points, and personally I as an HDW happen to agree with you on the majority of them. Keep in mind though that we here in this particular BB have one spouse that is very LD, that's why we are here. Someone who is LD will often go to extremes to avoid sex, or avoid appearing "sexy" to their spouse.
I also, don't necessarily wear lingerie for any man...it makes "me" feel good....but then you and I seem to have fairly good outlooks on ourselves. Many people who are LD often seem to suffer from self-esteem, self-perception, or other issues.
