Thank you for sharing that. I wish my husband would stop fighting, stop struggling to push himself away from me and stop running. If he could do that and take a breath and look around for a moment, he would see things a little more clearly. He could realize that there is still a lot of love and caring between us, and we could start over. I know I can’t control what another person does, but I can recognize destructive behavior and my H. is hurting himself by his actions. I wish for this to stop, and if it did, he might come around to seeing who has always been there for him, who really loves him, and won’t leave him even in the worst of times.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
