NY S,
That is an outstanding idea, but I have to tell you that I don’t think H. would go. I can ask him, but I can’t force him. I had told him in Jan. that if he wanted a D., before we consulted lawyers I ask that he go to see a marriage counselor with me. Nothing happened either way but maybe now he might be open to the idea. I will see if he is willing, but I seriously doubt he will go. But, thank you for the idea.


Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.