Well, we won’t be discussing this until the weekend at the earliest, so I do have a few days to pull together. But really all that is doing is making me crazy, wondering what is true and what is not.
Imdi, yes I did speak with him and he said that he wanted to tell me the truth in person about things. He said that he had not been cheating on me for 4 years w/ o.w. and did not want me to think that. But as far as any divorce is concerned, he DID cheat on me, whether it was once or 4 years, so there is still an infidelity factor.
I am still open to mediate with him but only if he agrees to what I want, and I will be fair about it. I know what I am entitled to, and plan to talk w/H. about this. If he gives me any grief then I will have no choice but to get an attorney and go about it that way.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
