Hope- I am curious to know if you ever spoke to your H last night.
NYS is right...its amazing how he quickly turned this around on you. As you know, i am very familiar with that tactic. Don't fall for it.
I understand you feeling humiliated after finding out that he has been cheating for all these years. But, you did what most spouses do...you believed in your H and had faith in the vows that you took. As petite said, that is not a character flaw.
I am glad that you were able to get some things off your chest...sometimes i think that we all need that.
Do try to see a lawyer ASAP, preferably before you speak to him again. I know you probably don't want to hear this, but he may try to backtrack on things he said, especially if he has an attorney advising him.
You will get through this...i have faith in you. Be good to yourself now.
