Oh honey, I feel for you and what you are going through. Is there anyway you can go home early from work today?
I agree with everything NY and Imd99 said; this is not about you. And trust me- you know that I know how humiliated and decieved you feel right now. But NY is right- H is just very adept at lying. And we just want to believe the best about our spouses. That's not a character flaw in my book. Unfortunatley, our spouses take advantage and use our belief's in the common goodness of people to aid their deceit...
I won't pertend to know what to say, or how to begin recovering from this huge bomb. But I am glad you said some of the things you said to your H. Your H deserved them in my opinion... actutally deserved much worse. And in some ways, I know it's quite freeing to say them. I hope you can take a small comfort in that.
Do consult a lawyer ASAP. Don't waste time. Protect yourself at this point.
And keep venting here. You got people across the country thinking about you right now.
PetiteFlower
Quote: Follow Your Bliss
~Joseph Campbell
