Imdi, Thank you for the support. I plan to call another lawyer for a consult. this week. I can’t tell you how stupid I feel. Four years. How did I not notice this? It became very obvious last summer but for the years prior to that I had absolutely no idea. I feel like a fool and I told him he had humiliated me. He really has no love for me at all. I asked him who he thought he was, treating people like this? Not just me, but now o.w. too. Now he’s cheating on her, and she found out, and broke it off with him. And he’s moved onto the next o.w. He just doesn’t seem to care. I even said to him, ‘At the rate you are going, you are not going to have a good life.’ He even agreed with me! What is the matter with a person that acts like this?
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.