looking over your post, it's what you expressed, not him, Actually, I didn't post the last part of our conversation word for word; I left about 5 min. of it out and just typed the summary. I was very careful to make sure I fully understood where he is at, so that I could at least let my mind rest and not wonder so much. We did discuss letting the changes unfold, and he said this is what he would like as well. However, I am aware this doesn't mean he's promising anything. but overall, ya done good Why, thank you. Oh, and I am quite aware I was having a R. talk. I didn't care. I went selfish. Sorry, but I needed to know! If that's what he's doing, he may find it causes more headaches than not. I sure hope you are right, NYS. I can't see any good coming from it, either. What's the difference between these two options? As I said, I have a lot of friends and family to do things with, but if I am legally married I won't date. So if I choose to wait it out for a while, I'm not going to be pursuing any new R's with any men. So I won't be moving on in that respect. Let's be honest; we all want someone to hold, to love, to share time with. I still want that person to be H. which is why I'm here.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
