I couldn't agree more, really. The ball is in her court at the moment and she must make the decision to end this EA on her own, for her own reasons. It is completely like an acholic making the choice to stop. Whether she will be up to the challenge is another thing completely. The point I was making is that I am not reading anything into her words yesterday. Do I believe she wants to move beyond it? Yeah, I think so....is she emotionally prepared to do so? I don't think she is yet....but who knows, stranger things have happened. She recognizes that she "has to be a stronger person" (her words) and that she used to be such a good person but she now "feels like she entered the twilight zone." I can certainly understand these feelings.
The point being, I am placing very little stock in what she says at this point and only focusing on her actions. If in the next several weeks I begin to see changes in her actions, then I will know. If not, then too I will know. Either way I must accept it for what it is and not lose sight of my goals.
Thanks for your input!
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
