PARob, it will be almost impossible for her to "move beyond" her feelings for the OM. That will not work. It's like an alcoholic resolving to drink less. She will need to make a decision to remove him from her life and accept that such a decision will be difficult and will result in her being depressed for a while. I know that this felt like progress, but it really didn't accomplish a whole lot from my perspective.
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)
