Just read GH's thread and mamabear had a good posting about looking at the positives..so this is what I will do.
I looked back on my posting about a year back...and at that time, things were really really bleak. H telling that he loves ow and wants to move out of the house, and that he may discover that ow will be all worth it (i.e. even with him throwing away our marriage, our family life etc etc) blah blah blah. He lied about being at work for his birthday,...and was with ow. Called him up and she picked up his phone. It is a horrible horrible memory.
Fast-forward to this year... I see positives... We have flight tickets to Australia for H's birthday this year. He calls me often. We are planning to be together as a family soon....(I mean there are downs,...but as mamabear says...FOCUS on the POSITIVES)
