Hello... Came back from Country X late last night... Overall, think it was quite a good trip. No real screaming matches between H and I. But there was one time that H was upset because S8.5 kicked his speakers off the stand and he was like going "why didn't you stop him" going over and over again... as if it was my fault. I was quite upset. But he called me later and sort of "apologise" in his own stupid way.
Anyway, I actually bought a ticket to fly to Country X next Thursday for H's birthday... and then H told me that he would not be around and that I should change me ticket. I texted him while he was at work "I hope that this is not a repeat of last year's birthday"... Immediately, he called me and asked me what happened last year... told him that he lied about having to work, but in actual fact, he spent his birthday with ow. He said that he couldn't remember and "for the sake of discussion, what if I am?" and I was like "I don't know. Don't want to hear"... and he went "Aiya...already asking you all to move over here... I will sort it out. I don't mean sort her out. I mean sort out our flights so that we can go somewhere".. so later, he texted back and told me to buy tickets for both of us to down under. So, instead of me flying to Country X, am flying to Australia with H...
My normal wife self would respond "what for? never flew before? Fly all that way for only 3 days..." but for the sake of being more fun.. I said ok...
So... Still plodding along until I officially move to Country X.