Hi Yoyo. Just dropped by to get caught up on your thread. A lot has happened with you . I feel your apprehensiveness about going to County X, as I would too. But like you said you really wouldn't know in the future if you made the right decision if you decided to end your M. It does appear that H is showing you that he is serious about the boys schooling and all.
So, does this mean that H has ended things with ow? Or is he planning on doing this once the family has moved to Country X?
I really don't have any advice to give, but I think you are doing good so far. As for my sitch, things are going well. There are good days and bad days but more good days than bad. I still have the trust issue which I think I will have for some time but I can see the reconnecting between us getting stronger each day. So hang in there with H (if that's what you truly want) and remember all that you've learned from DBing.
I'll check back in with you soon. Good luck!! Oh, when will you be leaving for Country X?
KDK
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years