From my last post...

Friday Nite...
Got a text from H in the evening. He texted that he will be back tonight instead of the next day, and I was to keep the boys up till he comes back.

H did come back later, but informed that he will be leaving next day. We talked, and we had s@x and talked again and then I fell asleep in bed. Was quite pleasant

Next day, Saturday...
WOke up, had more talks...not so pleasant but not fighting.. but ended up having s@x again... think s@x is how we resolve our issues these days ??? Anyway, we got ready to go to S6's school for the family day. We had quite a bit of fun there. After that, got home...I made lunch and not long, H left for the airport...so he says. I did made a little remark about that and he said "why don't YOU take me to the airport instead of the taxi then..". Anyway, I had my niece's party to go to..so, didn't take him to the "airport". He called at about 6.15 pm..but I missed the call... and he called about 7 pm. Had a short chat. He said that he's back in the office.. (or so he says).. and spoke to the boys. Think he tried calling aboug 10.15 pm again..Missed the call again. Was engrossed in my SUDOKU in another room.

Sunday...
H called my mobile but I missed the call as I was out in the garden. He then called the house. S8.5 answered the call, and told him so.. S8.5 came out to tell me "dad called and he said that he will call later". H did call again at about 1 pm. Nothing much, just to check on me...

Another day...... really just plodding along. SOme of our convo/ chats... I did tell him about an article I read about affairs, about this man who married the ow1 whom wanted to follow him everywhere because she didn't trust him. He did cheat on ow1 (W1) with ow2. Married ow2 (W3)and cheated on her with ow3. Told my H that I was laughing my head off when I read it. He kept on saying that the story is fake and he wouldn't be like that... Also related a story about my new coworker...whereby his gf threatened suicide when he didn't want to get married yet. Apparently she tried it about 4 times. When H heard it he was like laughing too. Another thing I said was that he is a real NATO (no action, talk only) and he said "I will. I said I will sort it out. I will".

Another part of our convo:
Me: you want two women for as long as you can, until one gets so fed up and boot you out. You want me to go and see a lawyer?
H: how do you know that I havent' gone to see a lawyer? hee hee.. No. I havent'
Me: Okay. I will go and see the lawyer. Give me the 500 bucks.
H: No.. Told you that I will sort it out. That's why I ask you not to see the lawyer.

Anyway... really plodding along with this limbo of having a H whom has his CAKE and EATING it Deliciously...(although I enjoy eating the cake...I really don't like sharing it??)

One Day at a TIME...