Thursday... AM. H called early in the morning. Asked me about the $ again. Then asked about S8. S8 spoke to his dad for a bit and passed the phone back to me abrupty and I commented something to S8 and he replied "He wants to talk to you". So, we spoke abit about $ and then told me about his car etc etc. Nothing heavy.
In the evening, did go to my sister's dinner. H called my mobile. I let the boys answer it and didn't talk to H. Don't know why but after the dinner, before bed, I did the unthinkable...I sent H a text. Me: Do you miss me as a friend? Not as wife or lover but friend? H: What are you talking about? Me: Nevermind. Nothing. Nite. H: Call u in 5 minutes. Me: No need. Going zzzz.
H called... and of course what I meant. Then said that he still treats me as "wife and lover". Blah blah blah. I told him that I was gonna Let go and be open to any guy's advances. He asked "can you wait ten minutes for me to get home?". Told him "NO. I don't wanna have phone s@x." It was kinda late. So didn't talk long so ended the call. After the call, got a text from H "Don't go f#@k anyone yet. I'll be back soon. nite hottie..." Didn't reply to this till the next morning.
Friday... Numerous text exchanges .... H did send me some really rauchy stuff. And then called me. Talked abit about stuff. Teased him about ow. About what my dad said. He said "maybe your H likes perverted s@x and ow likes to do that too...that's why your H has problems leaving ow". LOL... H was red-faced (from his voice) and denied it has anything to do with s@x. Anyway, we talked for abit (while I was driving...)and then he said "Don't go f$%k anyone, I will be back soon". I said "I am not gonna benefit you...If I am letting go, why would I wanna have s@x with you?" and he repeated "I said I will be BACK with you soon ". After we ended the call, he texted me again "Don't go out f@#king yet. Talk to u later".
Later....I texted him. Me: I am asking for the sake of asking...I am taking the boys to a charity treasure hunt end of May. This is organised by M. Do you want to participate? H: Ok....give me the dates. I'll book my flights back.
So...there...we are back to behaving like a somewhat "normal" family....guessed I am continuing with my DBING techniques after my PMS problems. LOL? And NOT AFTER LRT??? Wonder how long I will last....
