man yo-yo, just his whole reaction to you calling OW is one of those things that make you go 'hmmmmmmm'. I bet inside he was crapping his pants!
"I knew it. I knew it from the beginning that you are going to corner me with this kind of threat".
gee it's funny how your husbands affair will make you do the most insane of things............imagine that?
I agree - focus on you and the kids and nothing more, easier said then done i know, but right now he's more interested in not having HER feelings hurt then yours or the boys - so fudge em' for now