On hindsight...I should have said "Okay...let's go see a counsellor"...Anyway, it is too late now

Yoyo: I don't think it's too late. If H is serious about this tell H that you gave it some thought and think it would be a good idea to start some counseling.

What I don't undestand about Mr. Yoyo, is why he keeps telling you he will be telling OW soon, but soon never arrives? I know, I know, I know...this is just one of the maneuvers that WAS use in order to keep both. I've heard the same thing from my H.

Keep the chin up, hopefully the five days in country X will give you some distance from your sitch.

M:43
H:37
D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his)
S: 10/2004
Bomb: 2/15/05
In/out of home
Living with OW #4
Talks of D for 2-1/2 years