I was really really upset with H as he said "If you were nicer, cared more about the family and be more patient, I would have been back to the family earlier. But instead you kept pushing and pushing!!".
yo-yo I certainly hope as long as you have been at this that you did not believe him - remember, it's much easier for them to place the blame to make 'themselves' look/feel better.
H asked for me and silly S8 asked "should I tell him a white lie?" which H definitely could hear..and H actually told S8 "Nevermind..just pass the phone to your brother.".
