LOL, I couldn't help but laugh. I can just picture you going all through the house, finding OW's things, cursing, giving them a hateful look, and tossing them away. LOL! I would have done the exact same thing.
Things do seem to be on the positive upside when H flies you over to Country X. Does H have pictures of you and the boys in his house? If not, maybe the next time you are there how about having some pictures in frames placed here and there in the house
Happy Birthday to S6!
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years