YoYo...so glad to read the positives in your sitch! I think this is where you really have to bite your tongue and be patient and you are doing a great job. Yes, you and H need to create some wonderful memories now, that will help him as he breaks off with OW. Enjoy your trip, just focus on the good. Every good moment you have with H is something the OW cannot take away from you, and it works in your favor. Chances are she will become desparate very soon. I know it's difficult...but things sound good for you - keep it up!